Description
Free and Powerful:
This blend is particularly suitable for wounding during stages of a child’s development relating to autonomy and differentiation and the submission enacted in the face of persistent invasion by the mother figure. This wound typically continues to be expressed as a child and adult in the following ways:
- think of others first and put others ahead of their own needs
- passive-aggressive patterns of saying yes when really want to say no
- victim mentality / martyr and whining rather than taking a clear stand
- hurt themselves before you can hurt and humiliate them
- endure much pain without saying anything because it gives them a sense that they are ‘good’ for being able to suffer
- smothered as a child
Physically this person may also experience:
- energy is built up and held within but needs discharge
- blocks at buttocks and neck with a large buffer of fat / muscle (to keep invasion out) around the torso
This blend will support you (or the client) to:
- allow yourself to experience pleasure
- release your energy so that you can use it powerfully
- effectively exercise your freedom to choose what’s best for you
- express your ‘no’ without guilt nor shame
- express your true feelings, including anger which is seen as shameful
- feeling free to love and accept yourself
