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How the Shadow makes you Whole

I don’t know about you, but for many years I have experienced what I can only call as “psychic” flashes about people where I am shown what’s on the other side of the veil, or the mask they may be wearing. It comes at precise moments that I am not in control of. I am shown inside their body (for example when I was shown a ‘hollow core’ in a sociopath and the words ‘energetic mimicry’ arose to describe how they were copying my energy way before I even knew anything consciously about those kinds of people).

I’ll receive metaphorical images simultaneously accompanied with specific words of revelation (like seeing a black hole and how it needs to be constantly filled up when a friend is not owning their insecurity but is seeking for me to pander to it). I get told the exact corrupt pattern they are running. I am shown the best way to respond and what is essential for that person’s soul growth, which can mean walking away from them or not engaging, especially when I’ve spoken my clarity and their willingness to travel deeper through this is, is not yet ripe. What I am being shown is their shadow, and it’s absolutely a blessing. But it takes skill to work with that, and to not freak out when someone whom you’ve been deeply connected with suddenly shows up another side to them. We are heavily conditioned in this society to seek the positive and light, and that’s a huge dis-service when it comes to working with the shadow aspects that are present within everyone of us. These aspects are hidden, a hidden gem really, when worked with properly rather than ignored or spiritually bypassed. The love brought TO THIS, is the golden key opening the door to our wholeness. A wholeness that can never be achieved through denial nor chasing the light. Yet, the shadow is not to overshadow the beautiful qualities that exist within you. It is to balance and complement them.

It’s time for the clarity to embrace all disparity, with acceptance and love. Only then, can you respond in a way that truly and wholesomely serves.


Izabella Siodmak is a Writer, Emotional Magnificence Facilitator and Deeper Relating Supporter.

She facilitates you to feel wholesome & content through your feeling of all your emotions, accessing your clarity & actioning your inner guidance.